When Divorce Decisions Go Sideways

During separation, conflict, emotion, and money collide all at once.
People try to stay reasonable, avoid escalation, or “just get it over with it”.

With years of experience in conflict navigation, Alternative Dispute Resolution, Certified Divorce Coaching, and divorce mortgage planning, I guide you through decisions involving your home, finances, and retirement negotiations before they become permanent.

Clients work with me because I turn complexity into clarity:

• Mortgages and housing decisions

• Retirement tradeoffs and long-term impact

• Difficult conversations during conflict resolution

• Decision fatigue, overwhelm and negotiation strategy.
  
  Nothing theoretical. Everything practical.

Hundreds of clients and professionals have trusted my combined approach to conflict navigation, separation strategy, and divorce financial planning

Different Kind of Divorce Support

I’m not here to litigate your case or clean things up after the fact.

I work in the middle—where:

• Feelings are still raw

• Conflict hasn’t fully exploded (but could)

• Decisions still have time to be made wisely

My role is to slow the process down, help you see the full picture, and support decisions rooted in values, stewardship, and stability—not fear or urgency.

What This Work Focuses On

Together, we focus on:

• Reducing unnecessary conflict

• Structuring conversations that don’t spiral

• Understanding the real financial impact of each option

• Making decisions that support your next chapter—not just short-term relief

Whether you’re discerning if separation is the right step, preparing for negotiations, or rebuilding after divorce, the goal is the same: clarity you can act on and stability you can trust.

The Outcome

You don’t walk away guessing or second-guessing.
You move forward with a plan you understand, decisions you can stand behind, and fewer regrets about how you got there.